A Wife going aside

 

 


 
 Dear Beloved Brethren,
 
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 In this message, we will be continuing our discussion on 'Two kinds
 of women', under the topic: "A WIFE GOING ASIDE".  This phrase - 'a
 wife going aside' is found in Numbers 5:12-21.  Accordingly, we
 will
 be reading three or four verses from Numbers 5, taking them as our
 starting text:
 
 "And the Lord spake unto Moses, saying speak unto the children of
 Israel, and say unto them, if any man's WIFE GO ASIDE, and commit a
 trespass against him.
 
 And a man lie with her carnally, and it be hid from the eyes of
 husband and be kept close, and she be defiled, and there be no
 witness against her, neither she be taken with the manner:
 
 And the spirit of jealousy come upon him, and he be jealous of his
 wife, and she be defiled: or if the spirit of jealousy come upon
 him,
 and he be jealous of his wife, and she be not defiled:
 
 Then shall the man bring his wife unto the priest ...." (Numbers
 5:11-15a)
 
 Now, this is a provision in the Old Testament concerning the
 institution of marriage.  It relates to the sanctity of the
 matrimonial bed.  A woman (and the man also) takes certain vows as
 she enters into wedlock with her spouse.  Essentially, it is a
 religious rite prescribed by the Lord through the instrumentality
 of
 Moses, used in ascertaining the fidelity or otherwise of a woman.
 It
 is used when for some reason the husband of the woman is in doubt
 of
 her faithfulness.  It is interesting to note that this religious
 rite
 was used in Israel for over 2,500 years.  The entire passage is
 interesting and it would be profitable for the reader to go through
 it once or twice.  That will be sufficient to familiarise yourself
 with all the provisions.  In another connection, we will be able to
 take an exposition of all verses beginning from the 11th verse of
 Numbers 5.  But for our present purpose, one or two things would be
 observed from a consideration of this passage.
 
 In verse 29 of Numbers 5, we are told explicitly that this
 religious
 rite as described in the upper verses constitutes the law of
 jealousy.  When a wife goes aside to another other than her
 husband,
 there is a divine witness attesting to this.  The woman's belly
 swells and her thighs shrink.  What an unsightly figure she
 becomes!
 There is much to be seen in the judgements of the unfaithful woman.
 
 They have a strong bearing to what results in the judgement of an
 unfaithful ecclessia.
 
 Let us look at this briefly.  Three things happened to the guilty
 woman.  Her belly swells, her thighs shrink and she becomes a curse
 among her people.  The woman that is not guilty is given a special
 capacity to conceive seed and bring forth children.
 
 It is important to note that this religious rite is administered on
 a
 woman only when the spirit of jealousy comes upon the husband,
 whether or not the wife is defiled.  The true state of affairs
 comes
 out at the completion of the ceremony.  It is even more curious to
 observe that in the case of an unfaithful wife, if the spirit of
 jealousy does not come upon the husband, he is accounted as sharing
 in the guilt of the wife.  But if he is sensitive enough to feel
 uncomfortable about the wife, he is approved even when the
 religious
 rite does not confirm her guilty.  In this case, God would bless
 both
 man and wife.  This looks a little bit queer, but we know and
 understand that all scriptures point to the Lord Jesus Christ.  And
 this passage faithfully used by husbands year after year, for 2,500
 years actually points to Christ and the Church.  For we know that
 the
 relationship between Christ and the church is set forth in the
 scriptures under the figure of marriage.  And whatever we find here
 has a prophetic undertone.
 
 Now, we will link up what we have been reading so far to the
 provisions in the book of Revelation.  Our burden is to have an
 introductory consideration of the harlot woman of Revelation 17.
 It
 can be demonstrated that the book of Numbers has a special relation
 to the book of Revelation.  And, of course, many persons are quite
 familiar with this situation.  For example, the books of Joshua and
 Ephesians enjoy the same relationship.  Joshua 1:3 says,
 ".withersoever the soles of your feet shall tread upon, that have I
 given unto you for an inheritance.".  That is the counterpart of
 Ephesians 1:3, ".Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord and
 Saviour Jesus Christ who has blessed us with all spiritual
 blessings
 in heavenly places in Christ Jesus.".  There is thus a human
 responsibility involved in the enjoyment of these spiritual
 blessings
 as may be inferred from a consideration of Joshua 1:3.
 
 Coming back to the main stream of our meditation, we are saying the
 book of Numbers has a special relationship with the book of
 Revelation.  We are shown here that the Lord Jesus Christ takes
 special interest in those congregation that profess to have a
 relationship with Him.  He will test them for faithfulness now and
 again.  He will do so, whether these assemblies are faithful or
 not.
 Note this carefully.
 
 You will recall that in a previous meditation, we examined the
 faithful wife.  We looked at Revelation 12 as detailing a later
 development among the faithful class of believers.  Revelation 17
 does the same but showing the future state of unfaithful
 assemblies.
 What is interesting is that the persons who find themselves in
 either
 one or the other of these two classes were once in the same
 assemblies.  As the tares are separated from the wheat, in the
 process of time, the tares are left in denominational bundles.  The
 wheat class is assisted to come into the priviledges and glories of
 the sign-woman of Revelation 12.
 
 Now, our emphasis in the main is on 'a wife going aside'.  In what
 respect is this woman going aside?  Or putting it more correctly,
 what things constitute the going aside of the woman?  This
 composite
 figurative woman is said to be in relationship with the Lord Jesus
 Christ.
 
 We answer (the above questions), by drawing our attention to the
 things we observed the penultimate chapter.  In considering
 Revelation 12, we said that woman came to the exalted position as
 the
 seven great promises were being gradually fulfilled towards her.
 So
 then, we see the several elements in the glory of the sign-woman of
 Revelation 12 as contained in the seven great promises of
 Revelation
 2 and 3.
 
 Taking a cue from this, it can be demonstrated that the infamy or
 shameful estate of the woman of Revelation 17 has its constituting
 elements in the things condemned by the Lord Jesus Christ in the
 letters to the churches.
 
 Let us attempt to look more closely at these letters, focussing our
 attention on what is condemned.  In the very first letter, at the
 4th
 verse, we see Jesus saying to the woman, or the church in Ephesus:
 
 ".Nevertheless I have somewhat against thee, because thou hast
 left
 thy first love."
 
 So, the first mark of unfaithfulness in the wife going aside is
 that
 she left her first love.  We are not told that the woman lost her
 first love, but she left it.  That is, there was loss of focus.
 She
 allowed herself to be distracted by other things that seemed to
 captivate her heart.  This typical church is seen in busy
 activities.
  So much is commended in her zeal for outward service.  But she has
 come to be doing these things routinely.  Christian service is
 motivated by love.  Heart affections are of great value in the
 sight
 of God.  Probably, we should read the preceding two verses to help
 our understanding:
 
 ".I know thy works, and thy labour, and thy patience, and how thou
 canst not bear them which are evil: and thou hast tried them which
 say they are apostles, and are not, and hast found them liars:
 
 And hast borne, and hast patience and for my name's sake hast
 laboured, and hast not fainted." (Revelation 2:2-3)
 
 Such were the credentials of this church in Ephesus.  But she has
 deviated from the source-spring of all true service unto God.  True
 devotion unto Christ, the place of personal devotion, was
 abandoned.
 The use of those instruments of devotion that the word of God
 reveals
 was not given special attention.  They were busy involving
 themselves
 in some service but they did not know that the first important
 consideration in our walk with God is that we should have vital
 fellowship with Him.
 
 In Mark 3:12-15, we find Jesus selecting the twelve Apostles.  The
 Lord's first objective for these men is that they might be with
 Him.
 Even in the natural setting, a woman can be so hardworking in the
 home, and yet be lacking in the things that pertains to true
 companionship with the husband.  Devotions to Christ rate higher
 than
 outward service.  Salvation is first and foremost designed to meet
 the needs of God.  He desires our fellowship and dwells in our
 worship.  This then is the first duty of love.  When the church is
 not properly focussed upon Christ, it may result in placing too
 little premium on ministering to the Father's pleasure in worship
 and
 fellowship.  So this woman goes aside first in not being focussed
 on
 her husband.  Something has distracted her.  Some other things have
 taken her attention from the love of her husband.
 
 Next, we go to the letter to the church in Pergamos.  There we find
 two elements that we might use to discuss the issue of the wife
 going
 aside:
 
 ".But I have a few things against thee because thou hast there
 them
 that hold the doctrines of Balaam, who taught Balak to cast a
 stumbling block before the children of Israel, to eat things
 sacrificed unto idols, and to commit fornication." (Revelation
 2:24)
 
 Now, Balaam is a figure we are all familiar with.  He taught or
 serves the Lord in the aspect of teaching or prophesying.  But he
 does this for filthy gain.  Both Peter and Jude addressed this
 matter
 in their epistles.  That is, he laboured only where there is cash
 to
 pay for his services.  And, we were told that even though he had
 awareness that God would not have him curse the children of Israel,
 because of lust for money, he taught Balak to cast a stumbling
 block
 on the path of the children of Israel.  Applying this to our
 present
 meditation, we can say that this woman is found going aside in the
 matter of being distracted toward covetousness.  In Colossians 3:5,
 covetousness is taken as idolatry.  And we are told in Revelation 2
 that Balaam taught Balak to cast a stumbling block before the
 children of Israel.  It was to cause them to eat food sacrificed to
 idols and commit fornication.  Idolatry is one area where the wife
 goes aside from the husband.  Her heart is drawn away from the Lord
 because of covetousness.  From experience, we know that when a
 believer is properly focussed upon Christ, he is sensitive to
 things
 cropping up in his life that are evil.  There is a work of the
 indwelling Spirit of Christ in this regard.  Before things get out
 of
 the way, the Spirit of God witnesses it to the believer who has
 become acquainted with the voice of God.
 
 When devotion is entered into under a sense of duty, and we do not
 wait long to come into real fellowship with the Lord, it is sure
 that
 the inward counsel of the Lord will not be discerned.  When things
 are done from a merely religious viewpoint, then there can be no
 increase of Christ's consciousness, no increase of Christ's life
 within.  And we know that, once our heart is turned towards God, we
 begin to enjoy those ministrations from the Spirit of God.  So, in
 this element, the wife goes aside in the matter of covetousness,
 drawn to materialism, because of some perceived gains that she
 might
 get from it.  This brings us to the next situation.
 
 The third issue is committing fornication.  The reference is to
 worldliness manifesting itself in unholy ties.  We know that James
 says that, ".ye adulterers and adulteresses know ye not that the
 friendship of the world is enmity with God.?" (James 4:4).  And the
 sixth verse says that , ".don't you know that the Spirit within you
 lusteth unto envy.?".  This reminds us of what we find in Numbers 5
 -
 ".And if the spirit of jealousy comes upon the husband.".  Now,
 there
 can be devotions towards things, towards persons which ought to be
 exclusively reserved for Christ.  Even in the natural, if a woman's
 heart is unusually drawn to another man, it provokes jealousy.  If
 we
 go to the letter written to the church in Thyatira, there again we
 find this same thing under the figure of Jezebel.  We are told
 that,
 the church (in Thyatira) was lured into committing fornication and
 eating food sacrificed unto idols by the whorish activities of that
 woman Jezebel.
 
 That seems to go just the same way the letter to the church in
 Pergamos goes, but there is a difference.  The difference is this.
 In the case of Balaam, we go to the New Testament to know what the
 Lord is pointing out, while in the case of Thyatira, under the
 figure
 of Jezebel, we go back to the Old Testament to see what the Spirit
 of
 the Lord is witnessing against.  Here it is unholy ties and mixed
 worship.  God wants to emphasize.  Some servants of God, unusually
 blessed by the Lord's presence, get carried away.  They turn
 themselves to demi-gods, and make the people of God to worship
 them.
 Remember that Jesus said through the prophet Isaiah that He would
 not
 share His glory with another (Isaiah 42:8).  So, in the matter of
 whom she reverences and worships, the wife could go aside.  And,
 even
 in the natural, when a woman tends to give so much reverence to
 another, while at the same time she neglects to do her duties unto
 her husband, it is a mark of gross infidelity.
 
 We will take the next thoughts and then bring this meditation to an
 end.  The letter to the church in Sardis points to something that
 the
 Lord condemns.  Let us read the first two verses to illustrate what
 in this passage answer to the wife going aside.
 
 ".And unto the angel of the church in Sardis write; These things
 saith he that hath the seven Spirits of God, and the seven stars; I
 know thy works, that thou hast a name that thou livest, and art
 dead.
  Be watchful, and strengthen the things which remain,
 that are ready to die: for I have not found thy works perfect
 before
 God." (Revelation 3:1-2)
 
 So, dead formalism is another indication that the wife is going
 aside.  And again, we know that in a natural marriage, either
 viewed
 from the man's or the wife's perspective, it is the same.  A man
 may
 give his wife all that she seems to need of physical things but
 starve her of love and companionship.  The woman will certainly
 know
 that something is wrong, because the husband's affections are
 stayed
 from her.
 
 In the same way, the church in Sardis was given to too much labour
 but just little or nothing of real firepower.  So, here it says,
 ".you have a name that you are living but you are actually dead.".
 The church services of many assemblies are cold and formal.  It is
 sometimes so superficial that it will be safe to call it mere
 drama.
 Things are said and done with no real meaning.  Nothing goes deep,
 yet there is so much noise and funfair.  Even in the natural, such
 things can be found in the home.  A very careful observation may
 easily detect the superficial in a relationship.  The woman seems
 to
 be about her duties, taking care of the children, doing this and
 that, but somewhere along the line, something is wrong.  We are
 bound
 to crystallise the manifest presence of God in our church meetings.
 
 This is achieved through recourse to prayers and worship.  Once our
 personal altars, our one-to-God fellowship suffers a loss, the
 effect
 is seen, not only in our character, but also in our services.
 
 Last, in the letter to the church in Laodecia, we can find yet
 another element of the wife going aside.  In the 15th to 17th
 verses
 of Revelation 3, we read the following words:
 
 ".I know thy works, that thou art neither cold nor hot: I would
 thou
 wert cold or hot.
 
 So then because thou art lukewarm, and neither cold nor hot, I
 will
 spew thee out of my mouth.
 
 Because thou sayest, I am rich, and increased with goods, and have
 need of nothing; and knowest not that thou art wretched, and
 miserable, and poor, and blind, and naked; ."
 
 Here is a reference to the fact that a wife can go aside in matters
 that pertain to false values.  This church is quite conscious of
 her
 wealth and she thinks she no longer stand in need of any supply
 from
 Christ.  She said, ".I am rich, increased with goods and have need
 of
 nothing.".  Many get pompous and vain when they come to wealth.  We
 know that whatever we see in the natural has its spiritual
 counterpart.  The situation of the church in Laodecia is common
 place
 today.
 
 Recall that we are told in Numbers 5 that the guilty woman will
 have
 a swollen stomach.  That is, the excesses of such a church will be
 so
 evident even to the unbelieving public.  Her sins and evil ways
 would
 become so obvious that all may see it.  Many assemblies today are
 so
 out of place that even the unsaved know they have run out of
 acceptance with God.  It says, the stomach will get swollen, and
 the
 thighs will shrink, and the woman will be a curse among her people.
 
 Now, what we have simply done is to assist us to know that whatever
 the Lord will do in our day it is foreshadowed in some Old
 Testament
 scriptures.  Just like the Hebrew may be constrained by the spirit
 of
 jealousy to drag his wife to the priest so the-greater-than-man,
 our
 heavenly Bridegroom, will do with the churches.  Any assembly of
 people professing to be serving Christ will not miss divine
 attention.
 
 Just like the Hebrew man, moved by jealousy caused the wife to be
 inspected, so Jesus Christ is carrying out a divine inspection of
 all
 assemblies that go by His name.  We all need to take out time to
 carry out self-examination now and again.  There is a call to
 repentance that the Lord is sounding to all that have ear to hear
 Him.  It is particularly disturbing that many assemblies pay no
 attention whatsoever to their condition.  There is a need to go
 periodically before the Lord not only as individuals but also
 corporately.  We would find the seven letters of Revelation
 chapters
 2 and 3 very useful.  In the mirror of these letters God's people
 are
 always made able to see their true state.
 
 May the Lord burden His people further to give full attention to
 this
 important matter of habitually judging themselves in the light of
 the
 scriptures.  May the Lord richly bless you, AMEN.
 
 We will stop here again for now.  When next the Lord by His mercies
 brings us your way, we will be considering these 'two kinds of
 women'
 under another topic: "THE LADY OF THE KINGS."  We indeed covet your
 earnest prayers as we pray that 'YOU' stay blessed in Him who alone
 is the Bridegroom of His church.
 
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